Women are expected to keep it together no matter what. We are the nurturers and the heart-center of our families. We work from sun-up to sun-down to make sure that everyone has what they need--often at the cost of our own bodies and sanity.
Sometimes however, we need to allow ourselves to come undone.
To fall facedown into our pillow and cry until our tears are spent.
To lock ourselves into the bathroom and cry under a running shower.
To cancel the work meeting, PTA phone tree or coffee with an acquaintance that you really aren't needed at and really didn't want to go to so that you can have that internal freak out that has been brewing for months.
To park in an empty parking lot and lay your weary head on the steering wheel, turn your damn phone off and cry until your eyes are raw.
Let go of the bullshit that's been stacking up on your shoulders for ages.
Come the hell undone. The world and it's expectations will wait for you--I promise. This is your moment, Love. Fall apart. I swear that you will come back together again.
Allow yourself to be free of expectations if only for a moment. Allow your shoulders to be free of the weight of the world. Just be delightfully goddamned free of all the bullshit.
My God, doesn't it feel go to LET GO?
You can have it all together again tomorrow. No one needs to know. Just allow yourself the respite, the freedom of coming undone. You deserve every moment, Darling.
It's going to be okay. It is.